What is sex ?

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If you are young or old, sane or insane, even if the question pops up in your head, you will need the confirmation: that your perception in the matter is valid and not altered one way or the other, though the action is pretty much standard and reviewing the definition of sex ( "either the male or female division of a species, especially as differentiated with reference to the reproductive functions" ) might confuse you.
Then why is there good or bad sex, where is the difference and why does it occur ? if it occurs, is it influenced by experience or just knowledge ? or both?
The answer to all questions may already be known by you...or not, that is what will be discussed today.

The mental availability and sexual maturity is gained by experience, where fault and error used as principle in many strategies of optimizing and trying to be creative in the sack,failing miserably to improve the quality. Knowing that a big amount of improv's developed along the years, not all were quite as good as others, but I salute all the research done in this matter by the people whom risked getting caught in awkward situations and brainstormed the most unusual ways of getting themselves there with the risk of placing their names in (101 sexual accident)medical intervention lists, search Youtube.
Getting to the bottom of it all,I come barring maybe not the newest news but the solution of what and where the work should be done when trying to get the greatest results with the least amount of effort.

Any sexual interaction is sustained and filtered through thought. Cerebral arousal consists in imagery and sound, and it is sustained by sensory. Kinetics are important as they give life to the process it self, but all of this maybe boring cause nothing's new, i haven't yet scratched the surface of what is sex actually.
Brought to the public's knowledge is that size doesn't matter, some may think that this is a man issue, but I include the female part in this too. As beauty marketing started to bloom, more and more women feel they are not enough or too much to be considered beautiful, pornography rising the males expectation of women and generating huge revenue to independent film makers, production companies, tv companies and even doctors in the plastic surgery segment.
By 2009 people had left some taboo areas when the word sex came in discussion, but changed when many used it as the perfect attention magnet, from promotional clips to music videos to celebrity scandals, not that it wasn't a popular subject until then, but everything started reaching new levels of indecency, the psychological effects started a ripple, shifting mentalities and making a larger number of consumers, victims of the movement. From the naughty to sado, and the percentage increase of people having new "fields of expertise" where sex became not a subject of study, but a motive to take things to another level,to an extreme one(the large number of sex categories which not include the "commonly known" ones).

If the "old" generations were too boring and the "new" generations are too extreme, what changed ? where is the difference ?

The answer to that is quite simple, it's attitude. It's mentality and motive, sex is seen as a must in all cultures, for the reproductive point of view, promoted by religion, then comes the psychological segment stating that it is important in the building of strong love relationships, then the marketing point of view inducing "sex is cool" idea, to the most occult and ambiguous cults where sex is a re-compensation of your dedication, practicing unadvised rituals using different substances.
Reviving what's left of HOW TO and WHY answers, this is my point of view :

Sex is an emotional release, where attraction is needed ( excluding the nymphomaniacs ) and a variable dose of trust, using this start i am going to explain what should be used in the "making" of the sexual intercourse.
(the following topics maybe already known, but repeating is the only way people will know that it is a successfully tested practice which help the act of mating)

Mood : maybe the most important factor of all, it should consist of the binding needs of both individuals (that's why necro/zoo/geronto/etc. , is not considered a legal or normal behavior in mating), this is the glue that sticks individuals together, it's the spark of any engine, it's the hart beat of any loving couple.

Attitude : this based on documentation and experience, can even generate MOOD, it is stimulating and can be a deal breaker, it gives passion and confident's, generates a playful interaction and a stress free environment.

Timing : Who didn't think about that, i'm sure their most common expression is WHAT THE...? Expect the unexpected, be prepared at all times, get you act together.
Addressing only the guys, this is the way you prove that you can manage yourself, a small number of girls will do some jobs themselves the most important part is the way you can get there using the least amount of effort( undressing yourself/her, taking out a condom, putting a condom, finding the place where you can "do it" etc.) .

Effort and creativity : The two elements making the act never dull or simple...don't repeat, no missionary all the time - if you keep doing it the same way over and over again, maybe sex isn't the thing for you...better start making ORIGAMI or something. Men are easy to stimulate but for women on the other hand, insisting, may cause discomfort and end up with an irritation and a bad temper.
This should not be a considered a problem of time, but i suggest never get to 10-15 minutes of the same position, and always fluctuate the thrust frequency you use. Remember that there is a target you need to arouse and if your in don't slack cause they have more than one zones that need attention.
For the women, best if you ask...although men are all the same from some perspectives they have many arousal points too, and I am not talking about the stick, learn to drive the operation and remember there is always more than meets the eye.
And remember all the positions are made for hitting the exact needed points, all have difficulty levels and pleasure points, so do take care !!


For those who are interested in more on some other psychology and sex, i recommend

Psychology Today